If you enjoyed talking with someone at an event, you can reach out afterward. There is no deadline or script you have to follow. A short message about something you discussed can make it easier to pick up the conversation.
Start with something specific
Mention what you talked about, then suggest a simple activity if you would like to spend more time together:
“I enjoyed talking with you about hiking. Would you like to check out a trail sometime?”
“It was fun hearing about your book club. Would you be up for coffee next week?”
Use your own words and offer a plan that feels comfortable to you. You do not need to make the invitation sound perfect.
Leave room for their answer
Keep the invitation easy to accept, change, or decline. If the other person is busy, they may suggest another time. If they do not reply or pass, let the conversation rest.
One message can open the door. It cannot guarantee a friendship, and that is okay.
See each other again
If you liked the event, browse the current events calendar and choose another gathering that interests you. Seeing familiar faces can make it easier to say hello again, but there is no required number of visits.
If you prefer to talk between events, the Charlotte Together Discord is another option. Online conversation is optional; you can also connect in person or take a break.
More ways to keep in touch
For ideas about what to say, read a few follow-up messages you can make your own. If you did not exchange contact details, see what you can do after the event.